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  Self-control  is  a  way  where  we  learn  to  delay  or  defer  the  gratification  or
                   satisfaction of our needs.
                 The fasting in roza or vrata as a part of Indian culture helps in developing self-
                   control.
                 Different psychological techniques to develop self-control:




                  1. Observation of own              •this helps in changing, modifying, or
                          behaviour                   strengthening differnt aspects of self.




                                                     •it means instructing ourselves to do
                                                      something or behave in a certain way.
                     2. Self-instruction
                                                     •this proves to be effective in regulating
                                                      one's behavior.




                                                     •involves rewarding behaviours that
                   3. Self-reinforcement
                                                      yeilds pleasant outcomes.



               Culture and Self

                 The notion of self is analysed differently in the context of Indian culture than that
                   of Western culture.



                         Western View of Self                          Indian View of Self

               1.  Boundary  drawn  between  self  and  1.  Boundary  drawn  between  self  and
                   the  others  appears  to  be  relatively     the  others  are  characterised  by  a
                   fixed.                                       relatively shifting nature.
               2.  It  holds  clear  dichotomies  between  2. Clear dichotomies doesn’t exists.
                   self and the other.
               3.  Self  and  the  group  exist  as  two  3. Self and the group remain in a state
                   different    entities   with    clearly  of harmonious co-existence.
                   defined boundaries.                          The self is generally not separated
                   Individual  members  of  the  group  from one’s own group.
                   maintain their individuality.
               4.    Western     Cultures     are    often  4. Asian cultures are often characterised
               characterised as individualistic             as collectivistic.
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